Monday, March 10, 2008

Ok enough of the lovey-dovey

The Boy arrives from work to find me asleep at 5 in the evening. This is becoming a recurring theme.

TB: what are you doing?
Me: sleeping.
TB: at 5?
Me: I am taking a vacation day
TB: from what? you've been off for a week.
Me: From cooking & cleaning
TB (looking around at strewn clothes and other whatnots): i can see that.

So, that's what I did and the boy huffed and puffed about, sighing about the mess, but
Over the weekend, the boy and I went for movie with his couple friend, lunch with some other newly married couples, drinks at new club, gym, and went for a swim.
And I just needed time to myself. And I needed to talk to MY friends and say 'crap' and 'shit' and 'rubbish' and just need to regroup
I went to a detached away place, talked to some friends, did some reading.
The new job only starts in a couple of months and I need to get things organized for the wedding.
People i need to find:

  • a photographer
  • a videographer
  • a DJ (geez - couldn't I get the ipod and stick with some speakers)
  • an officiant
  • and a florist

and I am being a lazy, taking a day off on my months off person.

2 comments:

Sayre said...

So, are you pretty much starting all over with the wedding stuff now that you've moved?

I'd love to have "vacation" days at home, but if I'm home, I feel like I need to be doing stuff. Unless I'm sick - but that's not really a vacation.

Anonymous said...

Me,
Enjoy your break and yes, I can understand how a day off your days off is sometimes necessary.