A bit tired now.
After long, harrowing conversation with Boy
I shouldn't be hurt.
I shouldn't
Oh sparkling ring - let me remember how much he loves me and remind me that he is a boy and this is not the time to bring up things and to be more like the calm M.L.
And I did remain quiet.
But in the back of my mind is lurking the fact that the Boy knew about his family's bout with the C word a week ago.
I should be glad that it only took him a week this time.
Because the last time when his mom was in an accident, it was a month before he told me about it.
So we are making progress.
But really, why does he not immediately tell me these things????!!!!???
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Because, maybe, he wanted you to enjoy the ring and it's after-glow without having to bear the burden of this news?
And while I'm all calm & full of gyan when it's you, I'd be upset too, if it were me.
I agree with Broom - i think that he was probably trying to spare you any unhappy thoughts...but I'd feel the same way.
I have these arguements with Orwell, ALL THE TIME - I suspect we will still be fighting about how long he took him to tell me something when we are 70. He says I should be satisfied that he tells me "as soon as he realises that it is something he needs to tell me"!!!!!!
Guys think way different than the way we think.
I think it is time to sit him down and let him know what are the things you expect him to share, 90% of the time it is just b/c they don't know better.
Congrats on getting engaged and hugs for the C word.
Ditto what Broom said.
Hugs!
I agree with Broom.
I liked your blog a lot
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