So
The Wedding is postponed.
Ding dong the wedding has been postponed.
We are calling up parents (mine) today to tell them the wedding is postponed.
And then we are calling up good friend who lives in another continent TTk to tell them wedding's been postponed.
And in a way, I am glad I've had my 2 months to mourn/thrash/yell/vent over the issue - the catharsis is almost complete,
The wrestler in me is almost laying down,
and I am now finally coming round to calling it 'our decision' instead of 'your freaking moronic decision'.
And finally, I no longer want to be the person that is the shrew who forces her man to marry when he's not fiscally ready or guilting him into accepting money for wedding.
And so in order to have the:
exclusive?-small -and -classy?- wedding, or honestly, any kind of wedding,
that is shouldered entirely by us, thus making absolutely certain that we have absolute control over every-thing, we are officially postponing wedding till further notice.
There, I said it.
And really, if parents give me any grief over it, I will simply refer to their wedding - shouldered entirely by their own, after their 5 years of going out when the world and all the Mallus in it told them they were breaking their parents' heart ... in exactly that same very tone.
Because I am nothing if not my parents' daughter
4 comments:
lol... yeah, mallus know how to deal with anyone whether its a stranger or one's own parents! glad "both of you" have come to this decision and its no longer "his freaking moronic decision". it can now be "our freaking moronic decision". its funny how one person can make the decision and somehow it becomes "our" decision!
Don't worry too ,uch girl. It will work out- no point hurrying up a major decision such as this one...
*hug*
-Sunrayz
O me o'mine,
boys!!! sometimes, just sometimes in life, you have to be the lady, and let them have their way. and yes, make them feel that it's "our" way.
Here's a wish for the classy-with-everything-the-way-you-want-wedding, as soon as it can be managed.
P.S. Good move on not wanting to be "the shrew".
Heheh - looks like you have learnt a thing or two from them :P and its moments like these where you can show exactly how :P
Bummer on the postponing but a thumbs up for the mature decision you have made. :)
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