The End of An Era

Random Dude: You know, I saw your TEDx video and used it as part of my research. Me: Awww Thanks! It was definitely... RD: You were big...

It's been four years since the boy and I stopped being an 'us'.  And there has not been a single moment where I have regre...

Today, in response to an email I had sent a couple of weeks ago regarding our divorce, the boy sent me this: I wanna say that there are t...

I knew I was compromising for a long time but I thought that was what marriages were about - compromise and hard work. The daily indign...

It is amazing what this blog has meant to me. Such articulate rendering of the life I led with him. He was all manners of not right for m...

Today I divorced the boy. It took me exactly 59 days after the boy hit me to get a lawyer, divide our assets, get the boy to agree to the ...

A day after the boy hit me, I called in my contacts and got lawyer referrals. A week later, I shopped lawyers, divided our marriage assets...

11 years, one silly long engagement, a wedding , in-laws , infidelity and a surreal afternoon of abuse later, I am getting a divorce from t...